When I was a kid in elementary school, I had a lot of classmates and neighbors. One of those playmates lived beside our house and his family education was really horrible in the community. He has an elder sister, who was one year older than me. We always played together and from my eyes, they were good playmates.
As soon as I heard their crying, I know their father’s tyranny started. It was a tantalizing and hard time for me. I could not help. There always came a great impulse from the bottom of my heart that if I were not a kid, if I had power, I would had broken into his house, beat that tyrant and saved my friends out of the cage. However, it was just my imagination and things went as it was with my tooth bit soundly.
What was going on there in my neighbor’s? The father pricked his two children with self made needles as his special family punishment if the children did something made him angry. The feeble mother was too weak to stop this. I saw the needles by myself and the amount was two, pricked on the wall if not on the body of my friends. The above story was true and was always an example for other parents to spook their children in the community.
I think most of us of my age have experienced being beat by our parents. I remembered to be beat severely in a cold winter day with snowflakes covered the ground. The reason was I went out to play on the ice surface of the huge lake with pals secretly. The surface was not as safe as I thought and I went home with wet shoes and pants. My brother and my cousins all had parents’ punches when they were treasonous teenagers. And now, they all grow up and are my mom’s and my aunt’s comfort and good sons. We hear thousands of times that they beat us for us good.
To beat or not, in the modern society, education expert’s theory tell us the way to teach our children in a kind method. Yeah, I agree with that .If you can do it with a peaceful way, it is the best of all. But sometimes we may lost our temper and beat our children impulsively, then a kind of thinking is needed afterwards and repair the relationship between you and children as soon as possible.
