If we know some knowledge of the virus like AIDS or HBV, we should be easier when live around them. For those teens, we should place more cure rather than asking our child hurt them.

While nowadays, the fast pace of working and life make the parents busy at career ignore the importance of having a dinner with children. American educational expert Marshall.P.Duke told us that happy communication at the dinner table or even a talk before sleeping is good for family harmonious relationship and promoting children’s thinking.

Make some time on investing in your dinner with children. In a successful dinner case, the first point is the democracy atmosphere among the family. Children can express what he likes. Parents play an important role in leading a good family dinner.

Here are some tips for reference.

1. Don’t get your children into the habit of eating and watching TV at the same time.
2. For the picky eating problems, more encouragement and less pressing.
3. Each member of the family has to join in the dinner chat.
4. For parents, focus on listening.
5. Say some words to show that you are listening to your kids.
6. Sincerely speak out something about your kids’ true feelings on what they express. Like: it is really difficult to lose a friend. I am really sorry to hear the bad situation that your classmates have. Is there something that we can help him out?

1. Create a pure and tidy environment. In my previous passages I referred that stimulation works during the development of baby’s nerve system. It is right here too. A noisy and disordered environment will lead to inattention. When my daughter was two years old, she had already got a lot of toys and dolls. I gave her one or two toys each time and the rest pile was removed to the other room. I can felt her concentration on them.
2. regular bed time

Set up regular bed time for your kids. Let your children know when to play and when to rest. Plan a regular period to read and for outside sport.

1. Balanced nutrition

This point is essential in every stage of children development. If the family can offer good diet condition, I think no parents would say no.

1. Adequate sleep

Enough sleep, good mood, stable emotion and good concentration 

1. Respect your child pace

Each child has different pace at development. Don’t push your child and make him do what you think he should achieve. Why not to slow down your speed and coordinate with him? More observation and be more patient. If you find obviously his interest, let him play longer time and it is a good time to let your child focus.

During my time as a teenager and after I got to campus, I met a part of those cases. My cousin, 4 years old than me, was indulged in playing video games without going to school when he was in high school. You can find him only either in web café or in bed of his room. My mom and his parents all had searched him all over the cafes of the town. Each time after caught back, what he faced with was a hard hit from his parents and a period of education besides his ears. However, anther cycle of the scene went on several days later. At that time, maybe 10 years ago, my aunt’s family hated those bosses of the web café severely. They thought that it was those cafes brought the damages to a lot of families like them.

From most of the teenagers’ addiction cases, the parents care less about the children’s private life. They communicate so less and parents cannot really touch the heart of their kids. They don’t really know what the hell the teenagers think. Most of the time, parents have the busiest period in their life when their family needs more home expenditure. They bury their head in their career and leave less and less time about how to getting through their children. I think maybe that leads to the impact coming from the internet for the relationship between parents and teenagers. For those bad parents- children relationship family, it is time to make some time to fix it up. Internet is not our enemy. It is a good tool if we use it good and maybe a terminator if we don’t learn a lesson from ourselves.

After work, I gave the box to my husband and bought two packages of fruit flavour soft candy. I put them in the box and told to my husband that you gave the box to our child and said it was dad’s gift today. My husband was an architecture and almost two third of his time was outside all over the country. I wanted him to do something to show his concern to my daughter this time coming home without time to prepare a gift.

After getting back, my daughter got rid of the candy in just several minutes. When we were having dinner around the table, my daughter said to us,” We can use the box to hold the crushed chicken bones.” That was right. We had chicken this evening and a box holding the waste temporally after the meal was not bad. But I was a little unhappy to hear that. I asked,” Hey, it is your dad’s gift for you. How could you take it as a dustbin? What a beautiful box it is?” She put down her bowl and came towards to me. “It’s not daddy’s gift. He cheats on me. ” I was a little surprised. “Why do you say that?”

My daughter replied,” It is so obvious that the box and the candy don’t match so well. They are not the same package.” I can saw the face changing of my husband and what should he feel this moment.

Although my daughter is four years old, she knows a lot and has already formed her way of think. She starts to use her head and always question my answers.

For parents like me, we should treat our kids more serious. Don’t take for granted that our kid is always those who we think to be. Tricks may work out one time or twice, but be careful of the third time.

Mom’s this kind of character affect both my brother and I in the later days of daily life. Keeping words help us to establish the solid and reliable relationship between friends and the most important thing is the respect from people around us. Friends rely on us and believe in us.

If you give your children words about something, try to keep it or don’t response so easily. Teach your children to keep promise and give the explanation of the reason when they cannot do it. Like I said, parents are always the example of their children.

Maybe we think it is nothing new to see a young teenager smoking at the street any longer. We are used to it. More and more teenagers become the victims of nicotine and cancer causing toxins at a young age. The report of increased death of lung cancer cannot make a difference for them as well.

As the no smokers, we cannot avoid the effect of second hand smoke in the public but we can make the house much healthier, for the safety of our kids and ourselves as well.

Today I read news from the newspaper that in 2008, the figure of people not be harmed by smoke and second hand smoke is only 5.4% globally. Before you find any signal of your kids smoking, tell them and let them know deeply about the harm of smoking. Help you kids set up the right view of smoking at a young age. Smoking is not just cool as it seems on the face. On the other hand, make sure that your house should never be a place that allows smoking for everyone.

From my point of view, water, especially plain water, is the most important medium for the chemical reaction in the cell. It enhances the good circulation of blood, transportation of waste and urination. However, most of the soft drinks in the market today are added by industry additives. Our kids’ attention is all drew on those delicious and good looking drinks with beautiful wrappers around and cool movie star printed on the bottle. The next step is trying to let your kids have more plain water. From now on, tell kids as much as you can that if you want to be pretty, drink water. If you want to be healthy, drink water. If you want to be slim, still drink water. Parents should be kids’ example at the same time.

A great part of the kids are from Japan and Korea. Maybe one or two kids on average in a class are from European or state countries. When I was looking around, I came across grade 1 class kids coming out for playing snow ball. The teacher was a lady, maybe 30 years old, standing beside them. Two minutes later, a black girl, called Coco, coming out from the building with a paper sheet in her hand and said” teacher, I finished the sheet”. “Coco, you are fast enough to finish the test sheet.” “12 minus 5 equals 10, 13 plus 1 equals 10, 18 minus 3 equals 10 and every outcome is 10” Then the lady asked Coco go back to classroom and recalculate it until getting the correct number. I could still remember the feeling on Coco’s face, how she wanted to join in the snowball games with others. She turned around several times when she went back into the building. The above scene may happen in a lot of families and I want to point out that I have no skin color discrimination in this story. I just met it. Wherever, even the best of the best school, math cases happen.

Math, maybe a headache for both parents and kids, is logical and boring. It doesn’t like illustrating and drawing. Sometimes it seems no fun at all. I planned to share some tips. However, every parent’s solution is different. It is important to find a special way for your own kids and let them like math. Don’t pressurize your kids using your way to learn math and try not to shout at them. It will only make things worse. Make math funny with the help of books and help from teacher. You will obtain what you expect from your kids under your patience and persistence. Another suggestion is that the earlier you set up the interest of math for your kids, the better he will behave in high school and later studying.

Christmas day is one of the most important festivals in west countries and nowadays is associated with gifts, toys, shoes, play stations and etc. How many kids know the meaning of Christmas and how does it come from? When parents are busy at choosing a good turkey and wrapping gifts for kids, maybe it is a good time to teach your kids a lesson about Christmas and the meaning of it. Tell a story of Christmas to your kids and let them know more about Christmas rather than the Santa’s image and Christmas tree invented by Coca Cola Company.

You can buy a book or download a passage of christmas day from the internet and it could be extra gift for your kids.